


You know the scars of narcissistic abuse ran deep. You faced the pain, navigated the healing, and thought you were done. You shed the label of "victim" and embraced the strength of a survivor.
But what if that past is still casting a shadow over your business, wealth, and impact in ways you haven't even realized?
Like you, I didn't see it at first. I was frustrated by attracting clients who seemed stuck, who resisted taking action. I was trapped in a cycle of over-delivering, driven by a deep need to prove my worth, leaving me exhausted and resentful. I chased strategies and quick fixes, only to realize the doing wasn't the problem at all.
Our deepest impulses in business aren't logical; they're driven by our core energy, our Soul.
When that energy is still tangled with the residue of past trauma, it repels the very clients and opportunities you desire.
Think about those interactions that left you feeling drained, the consultants whose need to prove themselves was a turn-off, the fear-based pitches that felt heavy.
This isn't just bad luck – it's a reflection of an underlying energetic misalignment.

You dislike those with victim energy, yet find you’re magnetic to them as leads, clients, customers, employees, and contractors.

You are in a pattern of waiting. Once this happens, then I can do that.

You attract situations that drain your time and financial resources – social accounts being hacked or shut down, complaints, legal disputes, even chargebacks.

You attract people who take advantage of you.

You know you charge too little for the value you provide, yet you fear your community (or worse yet NO ONE) will pay more.

You chronically over-deliver to the point where it drives clients away.

You feel like you have to persuade and prove yourself to leads several times before they jump in – even when the decision should be obvious.

You wonder if you’re in the wrong market, have the wrong leads, or have confusing messaging. You don’t know where to start to “fix” what’s broken.

You spend a lot of time doing things you dislike (even hate) because they once worked before

You believe the answer is to hire someone else – someone to do your sales, write your copy, or manage your social media.

You KNOW you are doing what you’re here to do, yet in present form it’s not sustainable.
These business challenges aren't random. They stem from a deeper place: your nervous system and the imprint left by past narcissistic abuse. This imprint fuels negative emotions, limiting beliefs, and ultimately, actions that sabotage your success.
Think about it:
Avoiding: Do you avoid looking at your bank account or credit card balances? Dealing with finances at the end of the day to avoid ruining your mood? Avoiding setting goals because you feel like reaching them is out of your control? Hoping you manifest winning $1 million (or whatever number makes you relax)?
Thinking: Are your thoughts filled with "nothing is working?" "There’s nothing I can do about it. Nothing makes a difference?" "I can’t afford it?" "If only I had more money, I could …?" "I wish the right people would find me?" "I have to work long, hard hours to make money?" "I don’t have enough money?" "Money is volatile?" "It’s hard to keep money. Easy come, easy go?" "I really hope I make money with this sale?" "Money is the path to my freedom?"
Feeling: Do you frequently experience disappointment? Resentment? Anger? Sadness? Terror? Impatience? Judgmental? Bored?
This isn't a failure on your part – it's the lingering effect of trauma.
Release the subconscious patterns that attract negativity
and repel abundance.
Step into your unique leadership style without the need to prove or persuade.
Build resilience that allows you to grow stronger through challenges.
Attract aligned individuals who value your expertise and are ready to invest.
Create a business that respects your time, energy, and worth.
Move from exhaustion and "shoulds" to passion and purpose-driven work.
Intuitive Coaching: Quickly identify the root of your underlying challenge, then receive guidance through transforming it.
Hands-on-Support: Benefit from unique-to-you 90-day strategic plans, access real-time support during office hours, and have the opportunity for 1:1 hotseat coaching on group calls.
Guidance from a Fellow Leader: Learn from a fellow business owner and narcissistic abuse survivor, with deep narcissistic abuse recovery expertise and a proven process.
Thriving Community: Engage with Soul-driven leaders just like you who are accelerating their results on this journey.

Trade exhaustion for inspired energy.

Trade boredom for genuine passion.

Trade self-doubt for unwavering certainty.

Trade wishing for tangible results.

Trade relentless hard work for greater impact with ease.

Trade doing what you have to for doing what you want to.
Break free from trauma bonds to confidently build your team and partnerships – attracting aligned, high-performing individuals and repelling toxic dynamics in all professional relationships.
Forge strong, authentic professional relationships with clients, investors, and your network by leading with genuine self-awareness and unwavering authenticity – the foundation of trust and influence.
Reclaim your visionary leadership confidence and make decisive, impactful decisions without the crippling drag of self-doubt and second-guessing that stems from past manipulation.
End self-sabotaging patterns that limit your business growth and instead align your subconscious with your ambitions – enabling you to achieve greater impact and results with focused effort and sustainable energy.

Improvement or eradication of asthma, GERD, IBS, hip pain of 22 years, knee and shoulder pain

Eliminated insomnia, anxiety, panic attacks, and daily hours of rumination

Reignited a love for international travel

Launched a new charitable foundation

Won a national title in their sport

Reunited with family of origin after decades

Deepened relationships with adult children

Found a forever partner less than a year after ending a 30-year relationship

Saved an estimated $60K in legal fees

And ALL developed a deep sense of peace, joy, and wholeness.
*Work with me is elite and discreet. Names are reserved or abbreviated for privacy.

"When I did the trauma extraction with Dr. Melissa, the experience was really powerful... Since then, I’ve noticed a big change in myself. I’m now fully focused on making my business successful, and the pattern of being attracted to narcissists is gone. It feels incredibly freeing..."
-- Amazing Woman* Business Owner and Life Coach | Southwest

"When I tell you my business has been booming since participating, I am not playing. I'm literally back to back non stop all week!!!!"
-- Inspiring Woman* Business Owner Finance Industry | Midwest

"My whole life has changed since my first encounter with you. It’s like I’ve become a success magnet. Everything and everyone I need is gravitating towards me. I never knew how what I was harboring was impacting my business..."
-- Fabulous Woman* Executive Sales | Midwest

"Entering the Antifragile Program saved my sanity... Through her program I learned to lean into my feelings, rewrite the unconscious scripts placed deep inside my subconscious and move so far beyond what years of therapy did for me..."
-- Incredible Woman* Sr Operations Professional | West Coast

When I found Dr Melissa, I was really hurt... The important thing is I feel like I've been healed. I feel good actually. And when I think about her, none of it bothers me..."
-- Awesome Man* Senior Leader, Financial Industry | Southeast
Access to the Complete Antifragile Healing Ecosystem (Value $150K): This includes the curriculum and live calls from:
Antifragile Explorers (Step 1 of your journey)
Rumination Busters (Step 2 for breaking free from obsessive thoughts)
Antifragile Rebels (Steps 1-5 for deep recovery and empowerment)
Antifragile Rebel Boss Curriculum & Membership Site (Value $50K): Your hub for calendar, trainings, processes, resources, templates, and more.
Quarterly 1:1 Calls with Your Business Energetics/Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Strategist (Value $4K): Craft your 90-day plan to maximize your business and personal results in the shortest time.
Heal Yourself, Heal the World, group Trauma Extraction sessions 3x/month (Value $36K)
Monthly Live Business Energetics Session to radically accelerate your impact (Value $12K)
Monthly LIVE Hotseat Coaching with Dr. Melissa (Value $12K)
Monthly Live Intention Super-Charging Session -- to make your dreams your reality (Value $12K)
One-on-One Emotional Alchemy Session with Dr. Melissa (Value $5K): Release all harmful anger, hurt, fear, sadness, and shame at a deep level.
One-on-One Limiting Beliefs Releasing Session with Dr. Melissa (Value $5K)
Community of Amazing, Soul-Driven Leaders (Value Priceless)
Access to the Complete Antifragile Healing Ecosystem (Value $150K): This includes the curriculum and live calls from:
Antifragile Explorers (Step 1 of your journey)
Rumination Busters (Step 2 for breaking free from obsessive thoughts)
Antifragile Rebels (Steps 1-5 for deep recovery and empowerment)
Antifragile Rebel Boss Curriculum & Membership Site (Value $50K): Your hub for calendar, trainings, processes, resources, templates, and more.
Quarterly 1:1 Calls with Your Business Energetics/Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Strategist (Value $4K): Craft your 90-day plan to maximize your business and personal results in the shortest time.
Heal Yourself, Heal the World, group Trauma Extraction sessions 3x/month (Value $36K)
Monthly Live Business Energetics Session to radically accelerate your impact (Value $12K)
Monthly LIVE Hotseat Coaching with Dr. Melissa (Value $12K)
Monthly Live Intention Super-Charging Session -- to make your dreams your reality (Value $12K)
One-on-One Emotional Alchemy Session with Dr. Melissa (Value $5K): Release all harmful anger, hurt, fear, sadness, and shame at a deep level.
One-on-One Limiting Beliefs Releasing Session with Dr. Melissa (Value $5K)
Community of Amazing, Soul-Driven Leaders (Value Priceless)
Pay in Full Bonuses:
BONUS One-on-One Trauma Extraction Session (Value $5K)
Pay in full discount (Value $4K)
The Power of Integrated Healing & Leadership
Antifragile Rebel Boss is the creation of Dr. Melissa Kalt, M.D. – a physician recognized for excellence, a successful entrepreneur as the founder & CEO of Sustainably You, and someone who has walked the path of narcissistic abuse recovery. This program offers a deeply empathetic and powerfully effective approach, built on lived experience and proven leadership principles.
This program is for the ambitious, heart-centered leaders – the
Rebel Bosses – who understand that their journey through narcissistic abuse, while challenging, holds the key to their greatest strength.
What you've survived wasn't meant to break you; it was the crucible forging your unique strength. Now, it's time to intentionally harness that experience and turn your resilience into your ultimate business superpower.
The world needs your message, delivered with the unshakeable confidence and clarity that comes from true inner freedom. We're here to help you unleash it.


You've conquered narcissistic abuse, built your business, and achieved success. Yet, that nagging feeling of internal struggle persists, even now. As a former Best Doctors™ physician and medical director of multiple clinics, I know intimately what it's like to lead at the highest level while battling a silent war within.
Even after stepping out of the chaos, silencing the rumination, breaking my trauma bonds, and rewriting my subconscious patterns, I still faced the daily frustration of unclear direction, the self-doubt that chipped away at my confidence, and the exhaustion of constant striving required to grow my business and serve my clients at the highest level.
But even with that deep personal work, I discovered a shocking truth: the subtle yet persistent impact of narcissistic abuse still sabotaged my ability to attract the right clients (leading to endless and draining pivots), haunted me with a gnawing feeling of financial insecurity no matter my income, and trapped me in a relentless cycle of proving my worth.
As a leader, you know speed is everything. But how can you iterate and scale when you're constantly bogged down by the wrong clients who drain your energy while trapped in a relentless cycle of proving your worth?
I designed Antifragile Rebel Boss to uniquely combine high-level coaching with trauma extraction – the crucial element for rapidly dismantling the subconscious blocks that keep you stuck. This program is laser-focused on the most impactful activities that generate massive ROI, freeing up your time and energy so you can finally move forward with clarity and confidence. It's time to break free from the invisible shackles of the past and build an antifragile empire on your own terms. Your unique vision of success is waiting.
In your business, you can expect greater clarity in your messaging and ideal client attraction, increased confidence in your leadership and pricing, and a more sustainable business model that aligns with your energy.
Personally, you'll likely feel a deeper sense of inner peace and self-worth, freedom from the lingering effects of past abuse on your business decisions, and a greater capacity for joy and inspired action.
While individual results vary, our program is designed to create tangible and lasting transformation
in both your business and your life.
We recommend allocating approximately 5-7 hours per week to fully benefit from the program. This includes attending live calls (which are also recorded), engaging with the curriculum in the membership site, and implementing the strategies in your business.
The beauty of the program is its flexibility. You can access the training modules and resources at your own pace, allowing you to integrate the work into your existing schedule.
The 1:1 quarterly calls are scheduled at your convenience.
You can ask questions directly during the monthly hotseat coaching and Q&A calls. You'll also participate in live group trauma extraction sessions 3 times per month. Plus, you can join the
live Business Energetics and Becoming Antifragile calls and bonus workshops (and you can always watch the recordings if you can’t make it live).
Our office hours provide another opportunity for real-time support when you need it.
Additionally, you will meet 1:1 with your business energetics/narcissistic abuse recovery advisor quarterly for targeted feedback and an updated 90-day strategic plan to support your specific goals.
Finally, you can reference our training modules in the membership site any time you need.
All told, you have the option to connect live approximately 10 times per month.
supportive and understanding environment.
Importantly, our approach to trauma extraction and other program components focuses on releasing the energetic imprint of the past without the need to rehash or relive traumatic events.
The group trauma extraction sessions are facilitated with care, and you are always in control of your participation. Our 1:1 sessions offer a safe space to address any emerging emotions with Dr. Melissa's expert guidance.
We prioritize creating a container where healing and growth can occur safely and effectively, without forcing you to revisit painful details.
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